Preparing for a divorce in Colorado can be stressful, confusing, and emotionally draining. The steps you take before filing will shape how smoothly your divorce proceeds. Whether you are a husband or wife considering divorce, being organized and proactive helps protect your rights and reduces unnecessary conflict.
This guide explains exactly what to do before filing for divorce in Colorado, what documents you should gather, how to prepare for issues involving your children, and the strategies our Colorado divorce attorneys at Timlin and Rye P.C. recommend for a smoother and more efficient process.
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What To Do Before Filing for Divorce in Colorado
Colorado is a no-fault divorce state. Neither spouse must prove misconduct to end the marriage. Still, thoughtful preparation can significantly improve the outcome of your case.
Start with financial organization, emotional readiness, and child focused planning.
1. Gather Essential Financial Documents
Colorado courts require complete and accurate financial disclosure. Gather the following documents as early as possible:
- Bank account statements for all joint and individual accounts
- Credit card statements
- Retirement accounts including 401(k), IRA, and pension statements
- Investment account summaries
- Tax returns from the last three to five years
- Pay stubs and employment records
- Mortgage documents and property deeds
- Vehicle titles and auto loan documents
- Insurance policies
- Business financials if applicable
Organizing this information early helps your attorney analyze marital and separate property, as well as potential child support or spousal support obligations.
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How To Make Your Colorado Divorce Go More Smoothly
Divorce does not have to be chaotic. With strategic planning and legal support, your case can proceed with fewer delays and less emotional strain.
2. Prepare Emotionally and Logistically
Divorce impacts all areas of your life. Prepare yourself by taking the following steps:
- Build a support system through friends, family, or a therapist
- Establish boundaries to help reduce conflict
- Secure personal accounts, including email, cloud storage, and devices
- Define your goals regarding custody, finances, and property division
Clients who are emotionally grounded enter negotiations with more confidence and clarity.
3. Prepare for Child-Related Issues Before Filing
When children are involved, advance planning reduces conflict and supports a healthier transition. Colorado courts always prioritize the best interests of the child.
Create a Preliminary Parenting Plan
Consider:
- School schedules and daily routines
- Weekend parenting time
- Holiday and vacation schedules
- Communication guidelines
- Decision-making responsibilities for education, medical care, and activities
A complete plan is not required before filing, but outlining your expectations helps your attorney build a strong strategy.
Learn more about parenting time on our Colorado Custody and Parenting Time page.
Our Recommended Approach: Financial Planning, Child Focus, and Active Engagement
The attorneys at Timlin and Rye P.C. recommend the following steps to make the divorce process more predictable and efficient.
1. Financial Preparedness
Take intentional steps to protect your financial future.
- Collect and organize financial documentation
- Create a realistic post divorce budget
- Avoid large transactions without legal guidance
- Monitor joint accounts for unusual activity
- Consult your attorney before moving or withdrawing funds
These actions build a strong foundation for productive negotiations.
2. Child Centered Planning
Your child’s well being should guide your decisions.
- Keep communication with your spouse focused on the children
- Avoid involving your children in conflict
- Prioritize stability and routine
- Remain open to cooperative co-parenting strategies
Colorado courts evaluate what is in the best interests of the child, and your approach should align with that standard.
3. Be Actively Engaged in Your Case
Your attorney is your advocate, but your involvement is essential.
- Respond promptly to requests for documents or information
- Communicate openly about your goals and concerns
- Stay open to negotiation when appropriate
- Maintain realistic expectations based on Colorado law
Proactive engagement leads to more efficient case management and better outcomes.
Frequently Asked Questions About Preparing for Divorce in Colorado
What should I do first before filing for divorce in Colorado?
Begin by gathering financial documents, securing your personal accounts, and consulting with a Colorado divorce attorney at Timlin and Rye P.C. to understand your rights.
How long does divorce take in Colorado?
Colorado requires a mandatory 91-day waiting period after both parties are served and have responded. Contested or complex cases may take longer.
Should I move out before filing for divorce?
Moving out may affect parenting time or financial arrangements. Always speak with your attorney before making this decision.
How do I protect myself financially?
Document your assets, monitor joint accounts, avoid major transactions, and follow professional legal advice.
Do we need to be separated before filing?
No. Colorado does not require spouses to be separated before filing for dissolution of marriage.
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Use this checklist to stay organized and confident as you prepare for divorce.
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The Checklist Includes
- Key financial documents to collect
- Household and account security measures
- Parenting and child related preparation
- Emotional and logistical planning tips
- Colorado specific considerations
- Important questions to ask your attorney
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